
Religion makes God sick. Jesus had a lot to say about the religious people of His day – the Pharisees – and much of what He said showed their religiousness as ungodly and pointless. Being religious is living a life where, through doing stuff, people attempt to be with God. It’s this mindset: “If I do enough good deeds/works today, I’ll be good enough for God and I’ll ‘get in’ to heaven.”
Christianity turns that mindset upside down. A Christian acknowledges that we can never be ‘good enough’ for God. He is perfect and we aren’t. But through His great mercy and grace, God humbled Himself and came among us so that we could be with Him. So instead of our actions leading to God, God came to us first. For a Christian, this relationship with God produces a life of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Religion sees our efforts lead to God. Relationship sees God coming to us – then our efforts follow afterwards. So many people get this kind of thing confused. Often Christianity is wrongly labelled as a religion. Becoming a Christian isn’t coming to a religion, it’s coming to a relationship with a living, loving God.
We were made for a relationship with Him. And any relationship is founded on love. But love is only love when it is chosen. People love each other because they choose to – sometimes they may be compelled but there is always a choice involved. This is what makes love so unique. Had God made us to automatically follow His way, we would never be able to love Him. Above all, that is what He wants for us.
Paul often talks about our natural inclination to be selfish (or sinful nature).
“Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God’s laws, and it never will. That’s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God.” – Romans 8:5-8, NLT.
Christians understand that the root cause of this sinful nature lies with the story of Adam & Eve in the garden of Eden, who chose to disobey God and go against what He wanted for their lives. They chose to live their own way. However you interpret the story is up to you, whether you take it literally or not. But the heart of it is that as people we will always feel a natural inclination to make decisions which benefit us rather than others. Naturally, we are selfish.
When Paul talks about the Holy Spirit, he is describing the only alternative we have to our own nature. If we give our lives to Jesus and seek to follow Him, we are inviting His Spirit to live within us and empower us to live according to God’s will rather than ours. God says:
“Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean. Your filth will be washed away, and you will no longer worship idols. And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. And I will put my Spirit in you so that you will follow my decrees and be careful to obey my regulations.” - Ezekiel 36:25-27, NLT.
Notice in this beautiful promise (written between 500 and 600 years before the birth of Jesus) that God is the one who does all the ‘work’. He says, “I will sprinkle clean water on you,” “I will give you a new heart,” and “I will put my Spirit in you.” It is He, not us, who does these things. It is because the Spirit of God lives in us that we have the power and ability to live His way.
This has turned out rather more confusing than I would have hoped but it is on my heart and I wanted to share it.
I think what I’m really getting at is to try and show God’s great love for us all. He knows that we can’t do it. He is longing for us to respond to His love and love Him in return, like parents would with their children. He is never expecting us to try and make ourselves good enough for Him. He is expecting us to acknowledge that we can’t make it by ourselves, and that we need Him in our lives.
This is grace. Undeserved love, showered over us. It’s not because of who we are and it’s nothing to do with what we have or haven’t done. It’s because of who God is and it’s because of what He’s done. It’s not about us, it’s all about Him.